Birthday Bash

Any Birthday coming up?? Let me help you here :)

You must have wished some person on their birthday and you will be doing that every year. But have you ever given it a thought about how to make your wishes really different and interesting so that they never forget it? Here is a list of 10 ways that could help you with this:

10. The Sneak Attack:

It is good to know that someone was just waiting for the clock to strike 12 in the mid night just to wish on your birthday. So it could be the best thing to do for them. If you feel like disturbing the birthday boy or girl just drop a message. At least you deserve them to know that you were up till 12 for them! And then you can give the person a call the next day. If it is your buddy then you can be shameless ;)

9. It is the day:

Okay they know it is their birthday. But won’t they love it if you keep reminding them of that? You can keep on texting or calling them to wish them. They will surely get pissed off however. You can try setting their ringtone as “Happy Birthday” or you can make them wear “Its my Birthday” Tee-shirt. Imagine how it would be when they will be walking down a street and some stranger wishes them because they were too desperate for wishes! It would be fun; trust me!

8. Gifts every hour:

This is a cute idea and could help you with that special someone of yours also. If you are going to spend the day with them, you could do it yourself. Give them presents for every hour they have spent with you. You can start with a cake at 12. Now if you are not there with them, try to take help from someone present there with her. Arrange things such that they get a gift whenever the minute hand is at 12! The gifts need not to be very expensive. They could be just Roses or whatever you can afford.

7. Weird Birthday:

If you want their birthday to be memorable, you can also make it a little weird for them. You can take help from your friends unknown to them. Tell them to call the birthday person and threaten them for life. Like “Enjoy your Last Birthday” etc. Let it happen for a few times. When they will be sharing this thing with you fully scared, you can tell them the truth. It could be fun with friends but I suggest you to not try it with your parents. You can end up being grounded.

6. Birthday Bash:

This is the common idea for wishing someone on birthdays but is still very popular. People love parties and enjoying their day with others and move on the dance floor, eat and have loads of fun. You can make them crave for wishes by not wishing them the entire day but in the evening when all their hopes have diminished and they are convinced that everyone forgot their birthday, they will love to see that surprise birthday party that you planned. You may see a little anger but lot of love in them. They would forgive you for not wishing the whole day the moment you hug them and wish them.

5. Creepy Celebration:

If you are looking forward to have a creepy party for the birthday, not a romantic one or just food and dance, you can do it differently. You can choose an old wrecked place or a bushed place with tents as the venue, decorate the place with strange items like fruits, torn out clothes and whatever garbage you can find out. Keep it in mind it should not be stinky as it will ruin the mood. You can have an announcement for the person in the store or on the roads, embarrass them and make it an unforgettable birthday.

4. Cyber Wishes:

You can wish them in the cyber style also. When everything today is computerized, you can also take a little help from technology. You can wish them on facebook by writing a nice post on their wall or composing a cute message that makes them feel how important they are in your life and they matter a lot. Birthdays can be a good occasion to show people their importance.

3. Show it:

This option gives you a wide view of what you can do on the birthday. Prepare a presentation for the birthday boy/girl. Include cute pictures and some of the horrible pictures that they hate to see. Edit nice messages with them and display it may be in private or in front of all. I can tell you they will be so glad to see this surprise. Who doesn’t want to be loved and when you show it on their birthday, it can be the perfect gift for them and that presentation or movie of just 10 minutes can be their best few minutes. Include pictures according to your needs and relation and how you want it to. You can play the video at 12 also or in a restaurant where you are supposed to have dinner.

2. Frame it:

This is an old fashioned and cute way to show your love and care to a person. And what could be a better day to show it. Frame your feelings about that person say you like them or it is good to have them in life and whatever it is. Moreover you can also gift them their own portrait. Let them know that you know them very well. You can create a collage of images of them or a collection of quotes dedicated to them. They will be really touched by your efforts and would love and admire the surprise. You can wish them wearing a tee-shirt that says “You are the Best. Happy Birthday! ” Be a little creative and surprise them.

1.Know their needs:

If you know the person from long, then this idea would fit you. If you find yourself on the stage where you know about the likes and dislikes of the person and about the needs and hobbies then you have checked on a right tip. You can buy the things that the person needs according to their choices and gift them with the right timing and presentation. Presentation matters a lot. Just giving it to them or giving them with a little preparation differs. You can arrange hide and seek for them to get to their gifts and you can also make them beg for it. Do it in your style and make it special. Another possible thing that you could do is make a list of things that they need to do this year or some resolution that they always wanted to complete, get it framed and gift it. It will prove how thoughtful you are and you will get that sweet satisfying smile on their face.

Pick anything you want to for their birthday, but with a little style and creativity, you will make their birthday a special day not just for them but for yourself only as your work will be admired by one and all. 

Because of all those 365 days, on this one day everyone deserves all the happiness in the world :)

Confidence is the Key

 Today, what we notice is people having enough talents and skills but lack of confidence to shine among all. And an unrepresented knowledge is no better than knowing nothing. If you too are the one who faces the problem of having lack of self-confidence than this article is for you and it will help you for sure trust me.

10. Positivity:

This is the key for not just improving the self-confidence but is useful in almost all the spheres of life. When you are surrounded by people with negative thinking, you can’t just rise up. Whenever you’ll try their negative thoughts won’t let you do anything different or important. So it is must to be connected with the positive people as they will help you groom, they will help you gain that self-confidence, and they will help you to have those guts to do something or initialize something big. So the most important and a basic thing for you if you want to improve self-confidence is gain that positivity, stay away from those negative people who just drag you down and be with those who inspire you and support you to achieve your dreams.

9. Dress Smartly:

This may seem irrelevant here but my friend it is not. The way you feel about yourself is clearly visible by the way you behave and act. So if you think well about yourself, you will give an impression of a confident person. Now, the point of dressing nicely is that if you look smart, well groomed, neat and well dressed, you will feel confident within yourself and now this is what was lacking before it. So fell good inside and it will be shown outside automatically. Now dressing smartly means dress nice and clean clothes, bathe daily, look neat and presentable and carry yourself in a good manner. It will make a unique identity of yours. But it doesn’t mean you just keep on shopping. Shop less but spend more. That is focus on quality goods rather than on quantity as they are expected to last long and look good. However best is to wear what makes you comfortable. As ‘You’ are the priority here.

8.  Walk Straight and Smart:

Another point that may seem useless for a moment but when you give it a thought you will agree. Walking slowly and bent downwards are not praised. If you are among those who walk slowly swinging arms and without noticing the surroundings in a sub-conscious state; than I would tell you to stop doing that right now, because they are nothing but a sign of low confidence. Walk straight and smartly, be energetic and quick. Improve your posture and work on your walking style. You may try walking with a book on your head and trying not to drop it. It will help you in walking straight while looking in the forward direction. It will create a sense of self-confidence itself.

7. You are Good:

 The main reason of having low self-confidence is that inferiority feeling that you get sometimes when you feel someone is better than you. But let me tell you one very important thing that could be a lifetime tip, “You are no less”. Yes, you heard it right! Everyone has got that extraordinary quality in them. You just need to find that. So what that guy has got looks, you got talent. It applies to all of you out there. Everyone is different. And you have also got something in you. So why not just write them down. Take out a paper and make a list of those achievements of yours that you love about you. It need not be very big, it could be just say learning to cook, or getting the license etc. And whenever you feel depressed, just read it and see how much you have improved and achieved. Add on to your list with everything you gain and every hurdle you pass and it will help you feel good about you. And also help you to get that confidence back. Because “You are Special”.

6. Work on it:

It is for those who find it difficult to talk in public and thus they feel lagging behind all others. One thing you must always keep in mind and that is “Nobody is Perfect”. So, if you feel like you are not able to do something, just admit it, don’t quit and work on it. So, start practicing to talk and express your views and in no time you will be that nobody. At an initial level you can start talking to those around whom you feel comfortable than slowly try to get out of your comfort zone. Talk in small groups first than don’t leave any opportunity to talk in public. You will be a public speaker in no time. Similarly, in whatever field you find yourself incapable and that degrades your confidence, just work on it and try to improve. Don’t ever think of quitting as this is what losers do!

5. Be Philosophical:

It may seem too much, but what we have to lose here. So why not give it a try. What you need to do is consider everything in a philosophical manner. It could be like on losing something thinking like it was just one door that closed, I have many more options to try now. And so on. Similarly, whenever something bad happens to you, instead of getting frustrated by your failure, just think it from the point of some philosophical mind. You may find it boring but it works. When you will think positive about anything bad also, it will improve your point of view, make you optimistic and a positive person. Keep a diary to maintain the record of all of it. Knowing that you faced something successfully can boost your self-confidence to a great level.

4. Be Innovative:

When you have those guts to initialize something new that may seem ridiculous to others but you succeeded in proving yourself, then you start attracting people around you. This will increase your confidence only. Start thinking out of the box, make a unique identity of yourself, and within a blink of eyes you will be the centre of attraction of your workplace or your surroundings. Now when everyone wants to talk to you, everyone is seeking your advice, everyone wants to hang out with you, why won’t you have that self-confidence. One thing to keep in mind is “Be Polite”. Don’t take it as if you are the only one. As Rudeness is never Admired.

3. Be Good:

You are good by heart; there is no harm in showing others also what’s behind that rock wall. That is you may have a golden heart but if you don’t speak nicely, don’t treat others in a way they deserve to be, your goodness is of no use. It is nothing if you don’t show it. So be polite to others around you whether it is your boss or your co-workers. People see what you shoe them. And once you are the ‘Good Guy’ you will be the most wanted buddy for all. When all are your friends and all trying to follow you, there is no scope of low self- confidence. You may also try helping out others who need it. When you will be satisfied and happy, you won’t even remember if you lack something or not because all we need is happiness.

2. Set your principles:

Another reason for low self-confidence could be your fear of being wrong or when you are already wrong. So why even get stuck in such a condition when you do something wrong and you are left fearing about it and that indirectly affects your self-confidence also. Now what to do to avoid such situations? Basic thing is to set your on core principles and that you are not allowed to break in any condition ever. They are the rules that you have to follow forever. It could be like never lie or steal or never skip work. When you are bound to your principles, nothing in the world can force you to do wrong that you later on regret because regret is the feeling that kills you from inside. So why even allow such conditions to occur. Set your principles and bound to them and never ever break your own rules in any condition.

1.Knowledge:

You get the confidence to speak about something when you have enough knowledge about that topic. Without having that necessary knowledge, your words are of no weight. And in most of the cases, you don’t even find yourself comfortable enough to speak. Best way to avoid such situation is to gain enough knowledge that you never have to face such condition. Books can help you with it. When you have the required knowledge you get the confidence by yourself, when you have got the facts, you will speak up undoubtedly. Read more, and get wiser. And the wiser you are, the more confident you are. The more knowledge you have, the more powerful you are. Everyone has to go through hardships and so do you. What you need to do is prepare yourself to face it.  

Top Women Fantasies

Here is another post written by me. Its fun, but don't forget, Its not all me :P Its an output of some research mixed with my feelings, in my words. Don't forget to add on your own fantasy ;)

Sometimes you may be wondering what she thinks of when she is around you or what is it that she is day-dreaming of.  All you got to do is understand how she thinks. You may use this knowledge for good purposes like making her happy. It will give a positive turn to your relationship. However, it is quite difficult to put together all what a woman fantasizes of. But here are some of the facts that could help to solve the mystery.

9.  Supernatural Powers:

Every girl has once fantasized about having some supernatural power and do the stuff that they can’t do normally. One of them is to fly. Her mind wants to see the beauty of nature. She wants to fly and know what it feels like to be in the open air, no boundaries. Another one she imagined of is to get invisible. She wants to see what people do when you are not noticed. Such crazy thoughts may actually. Women often fantasize about reading others mind and know what is going on in their thoughts. This mere thought makes her feel powerful and confident.

8. She’s the man:

One of a very common thing that women fantasize about is ‘Role Reversal’. Women often wonder what it would be like to be a man. They have, at some moment, secretly wished to be a man. She wants to see the world from a man’s eyes. She wants to do whatever a man can. Whenever she finds herself unable of doing something because she is a woman, she fantasizes herself as a man. It could be his physical strength or his carefree nature or anything including the intercourse, she has fantasized about being a man at least once.

7. Dream Home:

This is something every woman has desired and fantasized of. It is said that ‘Home is where Heart is!’ But in this case, there is a dream home in every woman’s heart. Some of them fantasize about a luxurious royal bungalow while on the other side some chocolate lovers may have fantasized about a chocolate house also. Some women may fantasize about a country side house that can be small or large, while some may fantasize themselves sun-bathing in their beach house. Whatever their choices are, they imagine a happy and settled life in their dream home.

6. Slave Partner:

Now this one is hard to believe but the fact is no matter how much your girl may love you, they have always dreamt of a slave partner. It is a common desire among the dominant women. They often fantasize their partners serving them. Who doesn’t want to be the queen and order people? And in this they don’t leave their partners out of it. Your lady may be fantasizing about you doing everything she wants, even if it is a bad idea, to have you knelt down on her feet and tell you that she is the mistress and you have to follow her orders. She may have the thoughts, while sitting with you, ordering you to clean the floor, then to sweep her off her feet and afterwards make love to her!

5. Dream Date:

This one may seem to be applicant for young girls only, but trust me it applies for every woman out there. Women fantasize of a dream date that could be with her partner only but when the place and the surprises are what she has always desired of, or it may be with some hot guy she always wanted to have sex with or some crush of her. It could be her favorite actor also. In this fantasy, everything is just perfect for her; the partner, the spot, the time, the gifts and the surprises. Every woman has a fantasy of a perfect date.

4. Shop like a billionaire:

This is something very easy to believe. A woman without shopping is incomplete. Woman can buy anywhere and anytime and can get 10 more things even if she needs none. This is a common fantasy of like 90% women. They fantasize themselves shopping and buying whatever they want to without having to think of their budget and what they actually need. They may find themselves purchasing things like clothes, shoes, jewels, cars and what not. Women fantasize of a lucky day when they can shop like crazy and they need not to pay the bills. You can witness this if you leave them in the mall and say ‘Baby, I am paying today’

3. Center of Attention:

Women love to be the center of attraction. To be loved, liked and admired by all is a common fantasy or you may say ‘desire’ of every woman. They often consider it an insult when the people around her talks about or admire other woman. They often fantasize about being the prettiest, the most beautiful, most admired, the most special one and possibly everything. Some of them even fantasize of eating everything they desire but never get fat, even without workouts .They often have an image in their mind where everyone is admiring them; every guy wants to be with them, in short where they are superior to all. They fantasize of a day when they are the ‘Queen’.

2. Go round the earth:

Women often fantasize of flying around the world and visit every destination that is in her wish-list. You should not be surprised when you find you lady trying to Google every possible country for hours. It’s her fantasy in which she visits the places in her mind only. She finds herself in one of those 187 countries and colored in that place’s culture. She wants to see all the wonderful places that exists, the people there, the food, the history. She thinks ‘travel the world now or she won’t ever be able to’. It could be an adventurous or a romantic trip for her.

1. The Fairy Tale:

This is the fantasy of every single woman existing on earth. Every woman wants her life more or less like a fairy tale; with a happy ending always. It could be from the perspective of the relationships where they fantasize of a perfect relationship; where both of them are happy and her partner is no less than perfect. Or it could be anything she ever wanted. In hard times, she fantasizes of a magic wand which will make everything better. When young, she fantasizes of her prince charming, coming to her on the white horse and then happily ever after. No kidding, but they still fantasize about the magic moments. She wants her life to be worth living. A perfect ‘Fairy-Tale like’ life is a ‘dream come true’ for every woman, a fantasy.